Tue, Sep 29, 2020

Learn to be ok with not being invited, included, or considered.

Something I have been working on. I’m sure we all have those moments of being let down when we have been ignored.  Get over the pity party there is now time in this life for such silliness!

My new thinking is that is okay.  It is not your business to worry about whatother people have going on in their heads. Telling yourself a new story about what is happening is usually the best way to help yourself deal with being let down.

The let down feeling is our own thought no one else’s. Take back your ownership of the situation, stop putting so much pressure on yourself and putting so many expectations on other people.

I’ve read so many posts about letting go of toxic people. Sure, it’s always good to surround yourself with upbeat positive people. And let us just say that the toxic people may not even know they are being toxic. Again, it is all in how we tell the story to ourselves that creates our reaction to something or someone.

Maybe it is something that comes with age and living through situations that we come to realize it’s okay to say ‘Not today’, I am at peace with who I am and who I have become.

Learning to be okay with not being invited, included, or considered is a good thing. Just stay in the now moment. Does it really matter that you weren’t invited or considered, maybe it was for the better anyways? Not everything is meant for your path in this life.

If we stay in a world where there is

Love, Peace, Joy and Gratitude it all works out in the end.

Take care of yourself stay out of other people’s business about what they are thinking or not thinking when it comes to how they feel about you.  

Kathy Eller is the founder and creator of MusingAbout.ca

Kathy Eller

Kathy Eller

MusingAbout Stories to Live By

Kathy Eller is the owner/creator of MusingAbout.ca

When Kathy created Musing About Stories to Live by, she was thinking of all you creative beings. To create a space to be brave with expression, creativity showcased. A space to make the choice to create a better today.

Kathy’s thought is “wouldn’t it be great to lead by example on how to live a good life with uplifting content and resourceful and informative stories?” Make it normal to see the ‘good’,

Kathy’s daily practice of journaling has brought her to new paths in her life. She has become a best-selling author – Magdalene Rising: Feminine Leaders Guided by Her Fierce and Unconditional Wisdom was created to bring together the magic of empowering feminine voices. Isis- Her second submitted chapter was in the best-selling book Mother of Magic. Now her third submitted chapter in the Magdalene Codes. Published by KIVA Publishing Become a Day Dream Believer. Kathy is currently creating a journaling community at Musing About – Journal Your Way to a Better Today. You never know where your journaling and writing will take you.

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